People who are sick and
tired of their lives have to deal with things differently. People are
different, so it is only normal that they deal with things in their own way.
When people are frustrated and desperate about their lives, some will just
accept it as it is, but there are those people who will express dissatisfaction
and seek improvement. They refuse to take things as they are and they express
distaste by refusing to accept what was just handed onto to them. They believe
that their destinies are not written in stone, and they will do all they can to
improve the quality of their lives.
The Barriers to Self
Development
When people seek to
develop their lives, it is quite unfortunate that not everyone gets to meet
victory. Unfortunately, while dreaming and wanting self-improvement is free for
all, some people will have exhausted all their energy to no avail. At the end,
you will have accomplished nothing. Do you care to wonder why? Well, there are
known barriers to self-development and they are the following:
·
Being
too preoccupied with other things: There are only 24 hours in a day. Sometimes,
people feel the pressure of time constraints, so they try to do things at the
same time. Due to this, people never get around to doing all the things that
they ought to do, especially the ones that means the most to their development.
·
Inundated
by a lot of things: Distractions come in all forms. When you are easily
distracted from your goal, you can lose your way and lose focus, altogether.
·
Constricted
mind: A person who lives in a box finds it harder to grow. They have gotten
used to confinement and defined borders that they find it difficult to stretch
and explore the outside world. Their imagination is too limited and this
prohibits them from seeing more, doing more and being more.
·
Encountering
failure: Errors and mistakes, especially to those who find it hard to channel
out from it, can be so damaging. When your past failures are much to grave to
shake off and forget, it can haunt you and disable you completely.
·
Lack
of support systems. Man’s natural support systems are the people around them;
family and friends. When a person does not have the support of the people
around him or if he has no one to turn to, for assistance, the journey becomes
a little tougher and more impossible, sometimes.
Overcoming the Barriers
Every problem has a
solution. When you know that there are barriers blocking your way to the acme
of your dreams, you need to find a way to get rid of these problems, so you can
just move forward and move on. If you are having problems with focus and
distractions, find a way to channel out the distractions from your vision, so
that you can just pay attention on things that matter the most. If you are having
problems with fear, then find means to invigorate yourself, so that you will be
more capable of fighting. The presence of family and friends is important in
self-development so it is important that you make them a part of your journey.
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