Dealing with
Social Phobias and Facing the Crowd
This world is not an easy place to live in. People are
cruel and everyone feels the need to pass judgment all the time. This is a very
judgmental world, and the society can be so difficult to deal with, sometimes.
Signs of Social Phobia
Not all people deal with social phobia but those who
do really have a difficult time. It is not easy when you are unable to face
people because of some kind of fear you have of all kinds of encounter. It is
not easy to be dealing with all kinds of social phobias, so you have to open
your eyes to the different signs:
·
Do you find
yourself blushing terribly when you are forced to speak in front of people, or
even if you are simply given the attention of a bunch of people?
·
Do you find
yourself sweating profusely when you know that you have everyone’s attention?
Is the sweat accumulation making your problem worse?
·
Do you find
yourself trembling when you are speaking in front of people; and do you
experience uncomfortable palpitations?
·
Does your voice
shake when you speak? Do you have any difficulty breathing or are you unable to
form audible words, at all?
·
Do you sometimes
worry about weird cases and uncomfortable upset stomach and diarrhea and
nausea?
If you are dealing with any of these symptoms, you are
definitely dealing with a bad case of social phobia and you have to deal with
it effectively. It is not easy to have to be having trouble facing people; if
you have to deal with these unpleasant symptoms, it is even more difficult.
How to Face the
Public
One way or another, you will need to deal with
different kinds of people and face the crowd.
If you are having a problem with that, you can easily learn how to, by
following these simple tips:
·
Accept that you
have a problem, and face the truth. Looking away from it will only make things
worse. You cannot face the public and this is an issue that you should not just
neglect. Once you recognize that you have a problem, everything can go from
there.
·
Start
approaching people. Instead of keeping yourself away from people, go ahead and
face your fears. Staying away will not do anything; in fact, it will only make
things harder for you. Face your fears and learn to face different kinds of
people, even if it is hard for you.
·
Evaluate your
discomfort. When you are in front of people, try to evaluate your discomfort so
that you can learn how to deal with them accordingly.
·
When you are in
front of people and are having a panic attack, take deep breaths and learn to
ease out. Count a few seconds before you speak, so that you can deal with the
heavy emotions. If you have to deal with a cruel inner critic, talk back to it
and prove it wrong.
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